Have you ever felt attracted to a lady and earnestly wants her for a relationship but got turned down? If your answer is affirmative, what then becomes the next thing to do?
Research has shown that quite a lot of guys, most especially the less attractive ones get turned down by ladies for making relationship advances at them. The reason for this phenomenon can be traced to her spec or kind of guys she’s interested in, her appetite for materialism, personal attitude and perception of relationship and also the guy’s level of attractiveness.
As a guy who probably got his relationship intentions rejected, it then becomes important to conform to certain practices that will help increase your chances of winning her interest or move on to a better relationship where you will be appreciated and valued.
Regarding this article, we shall be discussing a few things you should do as a guy when a lady seems not to be interested in your relationship proposal. See them below.
1. Work on improving yourself.
The idea of working on yourself involves the practice of stepping up your level of attractiveness. This implies improving yourself in all ramifications which includes your fashion, body fitness and hygiene, communication skill, improving your character positively and equally possessing a welcoming countenance. It’s possible the reason she rejected you in the first place could be because of your inefficiency or incompetence in the aforementioned areas. Stepping up your personality, which includes doing things that will project you as being attractive might just be the right strategy you need to win her back.
2. Take a break and observe her attitude towards you.
After giving much to improve your attractiveness, it then becomes necessary to hold on and observe her response or attitude towards you. If her character seems favourable; it then means you are making progress, but if negative; I will suggest you become a little patient with her.
3. Don’t beg or apologize for not meeting up to her standard.
If she still refuses your intentions despite your effort to improve your level of attractiveness, it then becomes important to let her be, and move on. Never apologize or feel sorry for not meeting up with her requirements, and it doesn’t mean you are less attractive as well. Rendering apologies and fighting to win her love regardless of her lack of interest in you will only reveal you as being desperate.
4. Accept the fact she doesn’t want you and move on.
In addition to the previous point, when a lady seems not to be interested in you; it becomes rational to quit the proposal and move on to another person. That a person rejected you doesn’t mean you are less attractive or won’t find someone else to admire you, that is the more reason you need to move on to a better and more deserving person.
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